I can’t understand why people keep worrying all through their life.
If you keep worrying, does your problems vanish? Or, do you think you can find solutions by keeping tense all through your life? No. You can never solve like that.
You will simply become tenser and frightened at your problems. That way, you can lose your stamina and the abilities to tackle problems.
You need to keep calm and strong to be able to face your problems and tackle them successfully. You cannot solve it if you are tense and disturbed.
You need to analyze the problem and its causes. Study the problem carefully to find ways of remedies in order to sort it out. This requires your presence of mind and some wisdom which is possible only if you are cool and strong.
So, try to be always cool, brave, and strong in order to solve your problems. You can take the help of your friends and others also while doing so.
Love and Gratitude are the two most desirable, fundamental qualities of any human being.
The human being is born to Love. As a child, he is attached closely to his mother and loves her the most. Thereafter, he begins noticing all the other things in the environment and gradually gets attracted by them and falling in love with them. Everything makes him wonder with awe and appreciate it.
While doing so, he would begin to think of the creator of those beauties of nature and begins to realize that he should appreciate the generosity and warmth of that invisible power which is so kind and loving towards humanity for bestowing all that happiness to the mankind. He begins to be thankful and express his gratitude to that Almighty Power.
Even though there is no eternal or continuous happiness in your life, you should notice that, in most cases, you are able to pass through those difficult periods of life with your confidence and faith. This confidence and faith are the tools provided to you by the almighty to guard you always.
So, we need to be grateful to God for being empowering us with these amazing qualities of Love and Gratitude which are essential for our survival on earth.
Did you ever experience it?
The astonishing benefits of Patience and Self-Control!
Most people may regard your patience as a weakness and negative quality. But, it’s not like that in reality. Your patience gives you an opportunity and some extra time so that you can judge things more accurately. You can perceive everything more clearly and then plan for your proper response and action.
The same applies to Self-Control also.
Self-Control refers to the quality of being able to control your self from being responding in a violent or tense atmosphere. It makes you calm for the time being; so that you do not get carried over by your spontaneous emotions of tension, anger, despair, or depression, etc.
By practicing control over your instant emotions or feelings, you are able to calm yourself and, then, look after circumstances in a more clear and rational manner. You can perceive things and form a clear picture of the events so as to be able to judge them more accurately and wisely. Then, you can plan a course of action to tackle the problems by finding some reasonable and practical means of solving them more successfully.
So, both Patience and Self-Control are very important qualities of a successful person.
They provide you the cool and peaceful atmosphere that is required in order to access problems more properly and search for the meaningful ways of tackling or overcoming those issues hindering your progress in the life.
Let us succeed in our life by practicing these good qualities.
What is the purpose of Life?
Most people express various views about the purpose of life.
For example, I will say it is to be happy and content. Some other will tell it is achieving a certain goal of becoming an entrepreneur, an actor, a famous player, reaching some top-most post in any field, etc. Someone may say it is to become a millionaire or a billionaire.
So, it differs according to their perspective of life.
We look at life from different angles and mostly think of material pleasures and possessions only.
But, I would say the most basic requirement in our life is the peace and happiness that we can enjoy. If there is no peace of mind or no happiness, everything else would be of no worth at all.
One should realize this essence of life- to make it as happy and lovable as it can be.
Keep this Happiness and Peace of mind as your goals whenever you think of your goals in life.
Recently, I have been getting treatment for my ulcers under my both feet. I have been suffering from these ulcers since long. But, I didn’t experience so much trouble with them all through this long period as of recently. So, I had to get them treated by surgery and through medicines.
Operated foot on 5th day
In the first week of April, I got the surgery for one foot and it took 2 weeks to get fully cured. They removed the ulcers by minor surgery and prescribed some antibiotic medicines and pain relief tablets. Further, I have been advised to wear some special shoes that put lesser pressure to the operating portion of the foot while curing. They are soft sandals with holes (actually they cut and remove a portion of the layers from the shoe according to the size of the ulcer) to accommodate the sensitive part of the foot for curing without inflicting pain or pressing the sensitive portion. You can wear it very easily with full comfort even over the bandaged foot.
I got the second foot surgery on 5th of this month and I am still wearing the bandage as it is not fully healed. But, I am feeling very much relieved from the pain, stress, and inconvenience that I had been experiencing all through those years. I am able to perform all my work including cooking by standing in the kitchen for long durations (presently I am living with my son who is still unmarried and we are only two here at present as my wife passed already 4 years back) by wearing those sandals.
Now, within next week, I hope I will be fit again with my feet. I am sharing this experience as it may help others undergoing such problems.
Life is a play. Play it wisely and smartly. It is not for gambling with high hopes of success and treasure.
Life’s for living happily and it is in our own way of thinking what is happiness. Real happiness is in living a simple life and making others also feel happy with your acts. It is not in pursuing gamble and risking the very purpose of life to achieve greedy and unrealistic goals.
Life is to face problems and solve them. It is not to evade responsibilities and seek refuge from challenges. Life requires much perseverance, determination and endurance.
Know the purpose of your life, set some achievable goals and pursue them without indulging in gamble. Do not get discouraged by failures or distractions. Continue your efforts like the spider that spins a web inspite of so many falls. Success will be there waiting for you.
This post is in response to the blogging event of literary lion organised by Laura Gabrielle Feasey. The word chosen for this time is “gamble”. You can view her post and other writers’ responses at this link.