Be Honest to Your Self

We need to be honest in all our actions and thoughts for achieving something. Honesty always leads to success.

If one is honest in his actions, he will not be worried. He enjoys the satisfaction that he has done his duty without evading or skipping anything. It will provide him with a nice feeling of joy and happiness. He can sleep well. He need not be afraid of anyone. Because he had done his duty perfectly well.

Otherwise, when he would have evaded his duty or responsibilities, he would be always feeling tense and be worried about being spotted and questioned. He would be unable to face his own self which will be pointed towards his guilt acts. He can’t be happy or enjoy his life peacefully.

So, we need to be honest always for our own sake. For our own happiness and our family’s happiness.

Worrying Does Not Solve Your Problems

I can’t understand why people keep worrying all through their life.

If you keep worrying, does your problems vanish? Or, do you think you can find solutions by keeping tense all through your life? No. You can never solve like that.

You will simply become tenser and frightened at your problems. That way, you can lose your stamina and the abilities to tackle problems.

You need to keep calm and strong to be able to face your problems and tackle them successfully. You cannot solve it if you are tense and disturbed.

You need to analyze the problem and its causes. Study the problem carefully to find ways of remedies in order to sort it out. This requires your presence of mind and some wisdom which is possible only if you are cool and strong.

So, try to be always cool, brave, and strong in order to solve your problems. You can take the help of your friends and others also while doing so.

The Powers of Patience and Self-Control

Did you ever experience it?

The astonishing benefits of Patience and Self-Control!

Most people may regard your patience as a weakness and negative quality. But, it’s not like that in reality. Your patience gives you an opportunity and some extra time so that you can judge things more accurately. You can perceive everything more clearly and then plan for your proper response and action.

The same applies to Self-Control also.

Self-Control refers to the quality of being able to control your self from being responding in a violent or tense atmosphere. It makes you calm for the time being; so that you do not get carried over by your spontaneous emotions of tension, anger, despair, or depression, etc.

By practicing control over your instant emotions or feelings, you are able to calm yourself and, then, look after circumstances in a more clear and rational manner. You can perceive things and form a clear picture of the events so as to be able to judge them more accurately and wisely. Then, you can plan a course of action to tackle the problems by finding some reasonable and practical means of solving them more successfully.

So, both Patience and Self-Control are very important qualities of a successful person.

They provide you the cool and peaceful atmosphere that is required in order to access problems more properly and search for the meaningful ways of tackling or overcoming those issues hindering your progress in the life.

Let us succeed in our life by practicing these good qualities.

Creativity Carnival “Inspiration”

Shafali at Creativity Carnival, either draws sketches  or creates caricatures each week on Fridays, and asks the readers to respond to it by creating some posts, essays, short stories, poems or doodles.

This week’s prompt is a drawing of the ill-tempered Eve attempting to eat the forbidden fruit as seen from the caricature inserted below. You can view the full details of this challenge at this link titled “Creativity Carnival – Inspiration“.

Eve with apple

Inspiration is a kind of stimulation or feeling from within your soul, an innate urge to do something creative or useful generally for the betterment of life.

The urge to do something can be the result of seeing or watching something appealing to you from people around you or the incidents and circumstances around you. But getting inspired is generally positive in nature. Inspiration is attributed to positive thoughts only. Anything negative and destructive is not referred to as being the result of inspiration.

In the above caricature, on first glance, one will be looking at the act of eating the forbidden fruit by that ugly minded ( instigated by the satanic serpent) woman known as Eve. But if you look carefully, you can see other positive inspiring things also. There is the fallen apple, the sketch pencil, the feather and ink pot, etc.

So, instead of getting drawn by the evil thoughts and the ugly nature of things, you can look at it positively and appreciate the skills with which the figure has been created and get yourself inspired to draw wonderful drawings using the pencil, feather, ink.

If you are of research mentality like Sir Isaac Newton, you can analyse why the apple fell on ground instead of hanging in air and what are causes and the effects of it.

In our daily life, we can get so much inspiration by watching people or events and from the wonderful nature if we are positive enough to receive the signals. So one should be always positive and keep himself ever ready to receive the inspiring signals.